Who Do You Love Most

Here's a paragraph of Buddha's story, if you cant understand the words, get a chinese to interprete it.

佛陀曾遇到這樣的事：有一天國王來到佛陀跟前聽法，並開始練習內觀，而通常在家中只要有一個人開始學，慢慢地，法就會影響到家中其他的人。因為國王是一家之主，一國之長，他的影響力自然很大，家中所有的人都在練習這種方法，而皇后瑪麗，也成為一位很好的修行者。他倆常在皇宮裡同一個禪房內觀。

有一天內觀一小時之後，國王問皇后：「若有人問你，你最愛的人是誰？你會怎麼回答？」她說：「我內觀的時候，同樣的問題也浮現出來，我發現其實除了自己，我誰也不愛。」國王笑著說：「好極了！我也有同樣的問題，同樣的答案。」於是他倆相偕去見佛陀稟告他這件事，佛陀說：「說的好！說的好！」這是走出痛苦的第一步，當一個人開始發現這個問題癥結所在，就可以走出問題，解決問題，否則一輩子都活在想像中。我愛我兒，愛我妻，我愛我夫，我愛這，我愛那。」

其實你誰也不愛，你只愛自己；愛自己的欲望、希望夢想，我愛這個人是因為我期待他能實現我的理想，一但他的行為與態度與我所要的背道而馳，所有的愛就消失不見，所以我不是愛別人，而是愛 自己，只要能認清這點，就很容易去除私念，就能夠走出以自我為中心的習性，所以這是 內觀者 第一個重要的體會。

Love

Lets bullshit some philosophy today :

"Once you found love, you will never lose it. what will be lose is only selfishness & self-centreness"

Idea... experience ...new possibilities

Spent two days promoting my company's service during the convention of an recently launched International MLM company. My mission: to talk to their distributors that they can buy and pay conveniently using my company service.

The development of strategy during the exhibition is pretty fun. first, we begins from qualifying the prospect and only focus on local distributors(Idea), then some of the leaders from oversea express keen to promote to their local sponsors (experience) , we shift to encouraging their leaders to spread the news to local distributors (new possibilities).

The limitation of "I"

"I" is a creation of experience from the past. There's a limitation on new possiblities.

If we look at something with the "I" involved, the truth is being blinded, the situation is being treated within the limitation of "I", that moment is lived within the "I".

How the "I" is resolved from the moment ? How does it feels at the moment?

The Happy People on February 14th

Wish all the florists around the world Happy Valentines Day !!!
Also to all couples who are waiting for this day to be happy ... hahaha ... what a crap

6 billion successful being

"In darkness I was looking for light, not knowing I am the light,
In failure I was looking for success, not knowing my very being is sucess"

I read this from a website. sounds true, but need to explore more...anyone wanna join me?
No wonder most people don't claim "I am very successful"

Recap of what read from Dyan Vimal's book

"I want to be have a million" I am not happy with what I have now, I want to have more money. And are likely to be emotionally affected if I haven't get the one million.

The same goes with the idea of oneself, if it is being attacked, "I" will feel hurt. But what is really being hurt is just an idea. "I" must be honest, "I" must be loving, "I" must be respected...

Yet, it is the idea of "I", that blinded the truth.

Patriotism, Nationalism, and racism are seperating our self from others. I am chinese, you are indian, the difference have been stated.

but how should it goes ? need to think about it.

Dog Should Have Air-Con

I am protesting for all the puppies who are not given an air-conditioned environment, especially for those fury kind like shi-tzu.

Being locked up in a cage sucks, without air-conditioning makes it double sucks.

I walked into a Pet-shop without air-con, and the puppies jump up and down barking at me, begging me to take them away. their fur tells how humid it is in that room.

Too bad, I am a bit stingy and stay in a condo, or else I'll buy all of them freedom.
On the other hand, maybe I should buy the shop an air-con ... But who's gonna pay for the electricity bills??? haha

Chinese New Year

This year is Dog year. As every year, we celebrate with 3 consecutive days of fiesta.

I am thinking of buying a fish tank, and put in some small fish. But The thought of travelling abroad stops me, who is gonna feed my fish. well, maybe I can leave it with my parents ...

This new year, I slept a lot in the afternoon. I am feeling not well after going through the rumble between food temptation vs self control.

Ding ding ... Food is the winner !

I wish everyone have a happy year, except politician.
I wish my grandma, my parents and myself a healthy years.